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Gary Lee: Washington Post Fans, Travel Advice Seekers, Chat Junkies, and others, just plain folks, fancy folks, and all others: welcome to our weekly Monday afternoon on-line travel gab session!

In this heavy travel season, we are short a few regulars here. But nonetheless, a stalwart crew is on hand to field your questions. I am Gary Lee, a longtime Post staffer and travel section writer, at the helm of the chat today. Joining me are: John Deiner, deputy editor of the section, Andrea Sachs, also a staff writer, and Anne Mcdonough, the section's researcher and sometimes writer.

So far, we've rarely been stumped by your questions, so keep them coming. In case we don't know the answers or if you have some brighter ideas, please jump in there with them. This is a travel free for all.

This is a time of year in which many families convene for reunions and so today's questions is addressed to those who have combined travel with the kind of gathering of family or friends that would constitute a reunion. Anyone with particularly good or bad reunion experiences to share? Do any destinations come to mind as particularly good for reunion gatherings? Any tips to offer those thinking of planning a reunion trip?

The best, most original and succinct answer gets a pair of flip flops courtesy of the Virginia Beach Convention&Visitor's bureau. They're a stylish pair, covered with seashells and stuff like that. And we're offering them at the bargain price of nothing to the teller of one great story or tip about reunion travel.

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back from Vancouver/Van Isle: and had a great time!; can't believe it's taken me so long to visit this beautiful part of the world. great food, great people, stunning views. too much rain in Tofino but I guess that's normal.

highly highly recommend the Pan Pacific in Vancouver. definitely ask for a harbor view.

will field any questions if I can help.

Gary Lee: Thanks, we we love feedback. Sounds like you did a trip similar to one I took a couple of years back. I also stayed at the lovely Pan Pacific and hit Tofino during the rainy season.

Glad you're back happy!

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Sin City: I'm sure you get this question all the time, but I really hope you can answer this before I make any travel arrangements.

I've never been to Vegas, and a couple of friends and I want to hit up the town in a few weeks. My first question is, where should we stay? Fortunately, we will be in Vegas from Sunday to Thursday, where rooms are a heck of a lot cheaper. We were thinking the Paris hotel. Good, bad? Also, we wanted to do a day trip or two. I know there's the Grand Canyon, but that's close to six hours away!; Anything closer? Will it be too hot to be outside? I guess I'm not sure what there is to do besides gambling and drinking...not to say there's anything wrong with that.

John Deiner: Hey, SC. Paris is a lovely hotel that's ideally located, and if you can get a good rate there, you won't be disappointed. Well, maybe as far as the pool goes. It's pretty nasty (small, lots of concrete). I'd stay across the street at the Mirage myself, which has a great pool and rocking casino and may be comparatively priced. But you can't beat those midsummer, midweek rates in Vegas.

As far as day trips, Grand Canyon is way too far. Go to Hoover Dam instead--it's amazing and always worth a trip. As far as the heat goes, I dunno. Depends on your tolerance level. Yeah, it's a DRY heat, but 110 degrees is hot no matter what the humidity level is. I find that as long as I have a bottle of water, sunscreen and sunglasses, it's not too bad. Another day-trip option is Death Valley, where the temperatures this week are about . . . 125 degrees.

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Silver Spring, Md.: I love your article on the shuttle buses at Zion. I was there in May and thought the system was fab. So much better than having to keep your eys on the road. I can't imagine how horrible it was when cars were allowed up the canyon. BTW, we hiked to Angels Landing--so much fun!

John Deiner: Thanks for the kind words, SS. We'll be sure to let Steve Hendrix know.

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Tours to India: A poster in the last chat (on June 27) asked about this subject. I'm not taking the trip until January, but my parents and I are using General Tours (www.generaltours.com) for a 2-week stint in Delhi, Agra, and Rajasthan, i.e. the Golden Triangle. My parents had a great tour of China with General Tours (small groups, knowledgeable guide), and our travel agent heartily endorses them. I'll let the chat know how it went 6 months hence!;

Anne McDonough: Excellent--we love reports from the road. And make sure you get to see the Taj at different times of day--it's definitely worth it. If you have time, and the inclination, spending some time at the Mother Theresa house in Agra was a definite highlight; we went there on the recommendation of a family we met at a roadside stop between Delhi and Agra. I hugged more adorable babies in three hours there than I would have thought possible.

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Falls Church, Va.: Hi Crew -

I'm taking my Mom to Longwood Gardens in the Brandywine Valley for her 60th birthday. We are going to zip up there early next Saturday and stay one night. Never been, so am looking for any tips on hotels&especially a nice restaurant to celebrate her birthday. Also, does anyone have a good estimate on how long it will take to drive up there if we leave bright and early? Thanks!

Anne McDonough: Hey Falls Church-we have a link to an Escapes coming right up. Montchanin Inn sounds like the perfect place for you, and if staying there doesn't work, Steve was pretty wowed by the restaurant there. Enjoy-and happy 60th to your mom!

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Rockville, Md.: Hey crew -- My wife and I are heading for Costa Rica in August, and I'm wondering if malaria pills are necessary or advisable. We're not going anywhere remote, just the usual tourist spots. Last year my wife and I got yellow fever shots and took malaria pills for a visit to the Peruvian rainforest, and when we got there, we were told it was unnecessary. So, I don't want to go through the process all over again for no reason. Thanks.

Andrea Sachs: The CDC says malaria is a concern in the Alajuela, Limn, Guanacaste and Heredia provinces, but not Limn city (Puerto Limon). However, if you are staying in the tourist areas, you should be fine (check with an infectious diseases doc to be sure). Often, the side effects of malaria drugs can be debilitating, and you don't want to take them unnecessarily. When I visited Costa Rica, I did not take the pills and never felt vulnerable. Ditto for South Africa.

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Paris in August: I'll be spending a week in Paris in August, the 18th - 24th. I know this is not the best time to visit since most Parisians are on vacation themselves, but this was the only time our busy schedules allowed. Can you give any recommendations for doing Paris in August, including anything you know will be closed and any things that might be better to do/see this month when the city's a little emptier? Thanks!;

Gary Lee: First, let me lay the myth about Paris being empty in August to rest. Every August that I have visited, I have found the city full of travelers and many locals, too. Mostly what will be closed during that period are high end restaurants and some of the smaller museums. But all of the major attractions that I know -- the Louvre, the Eiffel Tour, etc., will be open.

So, whatever you might do in any other month, besides having dinner at the Tour d'Argent, should be possible to do in August.

Any others with thoughts about what to do in Paris in August?

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Washington, DC: Hi Crew,

I really enjoyed your fantastic article about Buenos Aires, and the timing with that deal ("What's The Deal") couldn't have been better!; But I have a logistical question - the Argentina package is from Miami, so how would you do that from DC? Do you get a separate flight for DC/Miami, timed to coincide with your departure&return dates for the package? That seems a little risky in terms of possible delayed flights, etc.

Thanks.

John Deiner: Hey, DC. First, Cindy isn't here to take your questions on BA, unfortunately, but we'll try to answer what we can.

As far as connecting flights go, there's always a danger of missing a connection, but Miami is such a popular route from here, there are myriad options to get there. One of the reasons Carol Sottili includes those sorts of deals in her column is because it's relatively cheap and easy to get to those points (the others being Chicago, Los Angeles and NYC).

Folks who leave on cruises out of Lauderdale and Miami face the same problem; many just go the evening before and stay at a hotel to ensure that they'll make the connection. I'd give myself a couple of hours on both sides of the package flights (there's usually a choice) to be sure I'll be there in time. And you can certainly ask the tour operator for assistance in booking the flights to Miami if you're unsure of the times you need to be at the airport.

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Washington, DC: I am considering a trip to Turks and Caicos in October to possibly take advantage of the club med special you highlighted yesterday. Is that a good time to go weather-wise? Do I have to worry about hurricanes there?

John Deiner: Hey, DC. The later in October you go, the less chance of a hurricane. I'd try to go as late as possible, take out trip insurance and stay glued to the Weather Channel. Chances are you'll be fine, though (but this looks to be a crazy year, doesn't it?).

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Philadelphia Pa: We are planning a trip to India. How can we prevent Delhi

Belly? thanks Diane

Anne McDonough: Hey Philly, I spent a few weeks there and had nary a twinge; some members of my family...not so lucky.

One thing that I feel helped me is that I'm vegetarian (which is super super easy to do, and do extremely well, in India), and was scrupulous about avoiding water and ice. The ice is the kicker. Don't think oh, I can down this before the ice melts. Ya can't. Make sure that all water is bottled or that you treat it with iodine/boil it, and if you get a bottled water, make sure you hear the crack when you twist the top.

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Fairfax, Va.: We are a group of 4 couples that are planning a week's trip to Rome for New Year's. We are interested in an apartment, but are having problems nding one with 3 bedrooms. We don't want anyone sleeping on a hide-a-bed in the living room. Do you have any suggestions? We'd prefer to stay in the center of the city.

Gary Lee: You might try an outfit called Rome Sweet Home, at www.romesweethome.com.

They have lots of options and pretty good prices.

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Centerville, Va.: For Cindy, how much Spanish is needed in Argentina? Is English widely used? I'm not sure I speak enough Spanish to communicate with a hairdresser. Great story - I want to go.

Gary Lee: Cindy's not around but we think you'll find that in that major cosmopitan destination locals know enough English to accomodate you. In any case, take along a good pocket dictionary...

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Kansas City, Mo: We drove to Montreal last Friday and we were kind of disappointed. The old town was just tacky souvenir shops and horse/buggy rides. Is there a more interesting part that we missed or is that about it? We expected interesting shops, bakeries and food/chocolate shops and it wasn't there. I suppose we were expecting Paris in Canada but we didn't get it. Any suggestions on things to see if we go back?

Anne McDonough: Next time, skip Old Montreal in favor of the Latin Quarter, Plauteau Mont Royal, the Gay Village. These areas of filled with interesting folks, shops, great restaurants, you name it. Lots of energy, and while certainly you'll see folks who aren't locals, these are areas, unlike Old Montreal, where Montrealers live, work, play. It'd be a shame to have you think that the old port is all there is to the city.

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Arlington, Va: We are going to Florida, West Palm Beach, this weekend for a family event. We will have Monday morning and early afternoon (we have a 5pm flight home). Any suggestions for something to do for the day with a 4th and 5th grader.

Thanks

John Deiner: Hey, Arl. One suggestion, as long as you have a car,is to check out Butterfly World, about 10 miles north of Fort Lauderdale. Our own Cindy Loose went a couple of years ago and loved the place. As long as you don't care about the winged creatures flitting about you, think the 4th and 5th graders would dig it. Check out www.butterflyworld.com.

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Deep Valley, USA: Longwood should be about two and a half hours from Falls Church.

If you have ANY interest in scenery or archaology or even history, make sure you go to the Hagley Museum down the road from Longwood. It's the Dupont's original black powder mill site. INcludes the mills, the river, and a few stuffed sheep in the main house.

You can get to Longwood via Wilmington but I'd take the back approach and go down Route 1.

Anne McDonough: Thanks for the insight, Deep Valley.

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washingtonpost.com: Inn Bloom , (May 18, 2005)

Anne McDonough: Here's the story for the Longwood Garden-bound. Thanks, Kim!

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Boca Raton, Fla.: Hi,

My husband and I are going to Paris and London for the remainder of July. At this point we are not worried about anything. Just very cautious. Being from New York we always pay close attention when in new surroundings. We are not going to let terrorists deter us from living our life and would like to show our solidarity with the Londoners. I am sure we will have a great time.

My question is about tipping. I know how much to tip the maids, doormen and waiters etc. I was wondering how much to tip a concierge if he makes reservations or gets tickets. Also, how much more if any if he does more such as help you get your bags if they are misplaced after the flight. I am usually self sufficient and do not require help with reservations, etc. but we will be trying to get into some 'hot' restaurants and would appreciate guidance. When you tip well it makes a big difference in how you are treated. Thank you in advance.

Gary Lee: As for tipping the concierge, if he performs a special feat, like getting last minute tickets to the opera or seats at a fancy restaurant, I would tip around ten percent of the value of the experience. If you're planning to get into high end restaurants, you might consider faxing them in advance of your arrival.

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Washington, DC: Family reunions can be lots of fun but make sure you know you nuclear families' limits. I always plan a few activities either during our travels or during the reunion for my husband and kids. My husband and one of my kids have a hard time functioning in groups for too long a time. It is nice to know they can get away for a few hours. We have a much better time when we stay in a hotel or resort rather than a large house with everyone.

Gary Lee: Thanks for the great tip. It puts you in the running for the prize!

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Washington, DC: We're heading to Hanoi in August and planning on staying at the Sofitel Metropol. What do you think of that hotel? Are there others you would recommend instead? What web sites offer the best rates for hotels in Vietnam? Thanks!;

Andrea Sachs: As a chain, the Sofitel is exceptional, anywhere in the world. Though I did not stay at that one when I was in Hanoi, I did stay at another Sofitel in the city and slept and swam quite well. Indeed, you cannot go wrong with that property or really any other Westernized chain hotel (if it is familiar creature comforts you are looking for). Vietnamtourism.com, the country's tourism Web site, lists dozens of choices, from two star to five star. There are a number of discount hotel Web sites, but I do not feel confident recommending any of them, since you really don't know what you are getting for, say, $30 a night. If anything, book through a company that has a U.S. and a Vietnam branch, so that if something goes wrong, you have a safety net in both languages and locations.

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Reunion tale: After my grandfather died, my Grandma decided life is short. She invited my parents, my aunt&uncle, all the cousins and my sister and me to Victoria for Christmas, all expenses paid. She put us up at the Empress hotel, where we cracked crackers, ate traditional English holiday fare, drank tea, and generally had a wonderful Christmas. The whole family had never all spent Christmas together like that, and it was a wonderful memory that we will treasure of time spent with her.

Gary Lee: Lovely story and a special kind of reunion. This could win you the prize...

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Arlington, Va.: We had a family reunion (30+ people) at Disneyland last year. It was great. There was something for all ages, which ranged from 2-67. It was the first time we had a reunion somewhere other than someone's house. It was wonderful getting a vacation in addition to seeing all our relatives. Since the family currently has lots of people under 12, Disneyland was an extremely popular location, but all the adults had a fun time as well.

Gary Lee: Now that's something I would not have thought of. Thanks for that idea...

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Beach Reunion: Sunset Beach, North Carolina, is a wonderful location for family reunions. The houses are small, sleeping as a general matter not more than about 8-10 people. therefore, for family reunions, we rent more than one house. This has the advantage of giving people some private space to get away from the rest of the family (probably a necessity for sanity). We are not the only ones that think so. Every year we see T-shirts on folks that say things like "Smith-Kline Reunion 2003" (or whatever). Sunset is also good because it is a small island with a very wide strand at low tide, ideal for beach volleyball and other group activities, although I am sure the idea can be translate to other beaches to some degree or other, depending on local conditions.

Gary Lee: Thanks for the tip on Sunset Beach. Sounds perfect. And you're in the running for the prize!

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Share your knowledge!;: I love to travel and was fortunate enough to have a father who would take me to Europe every year since I was 2 (he is a travel agent). I have a 9-5 job, but I am interested in writing travel articles recommending places to sleep, eat, etc from my various vacations. How would i go about getting articles like this published? I am in my mid 20s, so i think i can address an age group that often gets ignored.

Thanks!;

John Deiner: Us? With knowledge?! Get outta here.

There are a great many folks with your same ambition. Indeed, we're inundated by freelance submissions. My best advice is to actually write a story or two (just asking if a place is interested in the subject matter before you write it isn't very helpful) and send them out to various publications. And good luck!

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Burke, Va.: For family reunions in years past, we've rented two houses on the Outer Banks and designated a quiet house for the older people and a kids house, usually on the beach. That way the early birds have a house where they can get up and have breakfast without incurring the wrath of the late risers. Recently, we've planed a two week vacation with the reunion being the first week. We don't use up all our vacation time with family but we get to spend a good chunk of time with them.

Our reunion is actually next week, in Ireland. My aunt and uncle live in Skull, County Cork and we've rented a house for the first week. We'll travel the second week through the west of Ireland. Can't wait!

Gary Lee: The idea of having two houses is a good one. Ireland is such a great destination. Enjoy it!

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Chicago, Ill.: Will the bombings in London cause any of the airlines to discount flights there this summer? Before the attacks, I had been looking for tix in August and all prices are near or above $1000. Thx.

Gary Lee: I doubt that they'll go down much in August. For one thing, it doesn't look like many folks are cancelling. And remember August is a season in which many Brits and other Europeans come to the U.S.

So, the planes are likely to be full in any case.

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Springfield, Va.: Three of us will go to the US Open in NYC this September. Have tickets for a Saturday nite and a Monday day session. We hope to take in a show and do stuff in the city when not there. Would it be a good idea to stay in Queens to minimize travel problems back and forth or in NYC near the appropriate subway line to Queens? Any suggestions for things to do in September there? ALICE

Anne McDonough: I'd suggest staying in Manhattan and then just taking the 7 train (part of NY's subway system) to Shea Stadium / Willets Point Station. The stadium's a very quick walk from there; it's easy to get there from the subway. If you're set in staying in Queens, the US Open's official Web site lists several hotels in the area which may also offere shuttle service to the stadium: Check out www.usopen.org for more info.

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Washington, DC: One batch of my ancestors from Finland came over on a ticket provided by someone who felt to old to make the trip. When the benefactors, family friends but not family, heard the lowly imposters were coming instead, they refused even to meet them at the local train station. The newcomers had to walk several miles to the farmstead.

A couple years ago on the anniversary of their arrival, several decendants and family members joined in to recreate the march from the railway station (well, its former location) to a little state park that stood in for the farmstead, along a trail. It was a perfect way to visit, celebrate our lowly beginnings of unwelcome, and get a little exercise too.

We should do it every year.

Gary Lee: I love this story. It could win you the prize.

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Chevy Chase, Md.: Re: Delhi Belly - When my husband and I were in India over Christmas we made a point of asking for all of our dishes to be brought out hot ("Garam Garam" not sure of the spelling...). It decreases the chances of getting sick...The food was wonderful! We aren't vegetarians but didn't eat meat while we were there and didn't miss it.

Anne McDonough: That's another good point-ordering dishes a la carte instead of buffets.

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Washington DC: Actually, in my experience English is not widely spoken in Buenos Aires. I found it quite difficult to do basic transactions in a shop, order in a restaurant, etc. in basic Spanish. Very few people I encountered spoke English, and if we weren't communicating I would then try some French or Italian that I remembered from high school and college.

Gary Lee: Okay, point taken. We have heard that most service workers, such as hotel staff etc., do speak English. Not true?

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Any place but here...: Looking for some help in planning a surprise party in August of '06. I am looking for a family get away - there will be 3 couples with 2 kids under 6 - in the Arizona, Utah, New Mexico, Colorado area. We have eliminated house boats on Lake Powell, the Grand Canyon, and Dude ranches for various reasons. The only other consideration is that there are several vegetarians in the group. Any ideas?

BTW, loved the article on Argentina. If I could I'd be there this weekend.

Andrea Sachs: What about renting a condo in one of the ski resorts, which are wonderful off-season. Perhaps Taos, N.M., or Breckenridge, Colo. There are all sorts of outdoor (hiking, riding the ski lift, rafting, etc.) and cultural activities (museums, music, movies, etc.) for visitors of all ages and interests, as well as restaurants that cover all diets, from the pizza-and-beer diet to the tofu-and-smoothie diet.

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Wilkes-Barre, Pa.: I am traveling to Georgia for the first time, and staying in Augusta for 7 nights in September. I want to have a relaxing vacation, but I do want to see a little bit of the state, and sample some of its' famous BBQ. What areas/cities/towns should I make a point of taking a day trip to? Thanks for any pointers.

John Deiner: Hey, WB. Not so sure about BBQ, but since you're down in Augusta, you can take a day trip to Atlanta. It won't be relaxing (a couple of hours driving to get there), but there's lots of history in Atlanta, including the MLK historic site and the Jimmy Carter Presidential Libary. Tour CNN or check out Coca Cola World, visit the Olympic sites, go to the wonderful botanic gardens or spend an entire afternoon at Stone Mountain. Athens, Ga., home of the University of Georgia and REM, is a wonderful little college town, and the drive there is a beaut.

Any other suggestions out there?

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Houston, Tex.: Over 4th weekend went to Burlington, VT. On Monday I decided to drive up to Montreal. At Canadian border they questioned me on why I was going to Canada, what I was going to do (sightsee), who I knew there (no one), how long I was going to stay (the day), then they made me park and go inside to talk to Canadian immigration. We went thru same questions inside plus: did I have a job? what kind of work? when was I returning to TX? did I have copy of my ticket?

I have traveled to Europe, England, Mexico and have never been so thoroughly questioned. I had my passport with me but they also asked for my driver's license and the car rental agreement.

I don't understand and would appreciate hearing FC's feedback.

Thanks!

Gary Lee: We don't know the answer to this. We suggest that you send a note about it to Cindy, the editor of our comings and goings column. She's on thye road now but may well look into it whjen she gets back.

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Travel insurance: Hello!; I've never purchased travel insurance, but with hurricanes potentially affecting my plans, seems like it might be a good idea. How do I go about buying it? And are there some reputable companies that I should look for? My main issue is ability to cancel if there has been or may be a hurricane or other miserable weather in the area. Thanks for any advice.

John Deiner: Great question, and all the answers are in a piece that Carol Sottili did not too long ago. Look for the link shortly after this.

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washingtonpost.com: Travel Insurance , (June 13, 2004)

John Deiner: and here it is. Thanks, .com!

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RE; India: Anne, you avoided water completely or you avoided all tap water?

Also, malaria drugs have improved significantly. The new drug Malarone has way fewer side effects... no vivid dreams, no threat of depression.... less nausea. I have just begun my pre-trip dosing and feel great!;

Anne McDonough: I took doxycycline, though I believe my parents took something else. Avoid all tap water--I did drink bottled water and used it for brushing teeth, though of course making sure the bottles were sealed, and I stomped on bottles after using them to avoid them being reused--and anything that may have come into contact with tap water, like vegetables which aren't cooked, and of course ice. Enjoy your trip!!

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Princeton NJ: ....Hi Crew great job as always...an idea For Paris in August. The Rodin Museum is one of the jewels of Europe, especially in warm weather with its incredible sculpture garden (and there is shade too if it's hot) and an outdoor cafe..also the Tuilerie Gardens park from the Louvre to the Place de la Concorde...

Gary Lee: Hey, nice tip. By the way, the Rodin is one of my favorite museums in Paris anytime of the year.

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Washington, DC: Love the chats!; I'm planning a 5-6 day caribbean trip with a couple of girlfriends to celebrate my 30th bday in september (keeping fingers crossed that we don't hit hurricaines). We are early thirties, AfricanAmerican women who love the music, food and culture (fine and pop) and people of the caribbean. Some beach/nature time would be nice but we're more interested in a fun, cultural experience. I've enjoyed Jamaica, Trinidad, Martinique and Barbados for these reasons. I'd love to Dominica, but costs are kind of high. I was thinking Port Antonio, Jamaica or San Juan, Puerto Rico. Anyplace else you think I'll consider? Thanks!;

Gary Lee: Based on the list of places that you've liked, I would say that Dominica would probably be a bit quiet for you, though it's a lovely destination for hikers.

I would highly recommend San Juan, Guadaloupe, or Negril, Jamaica.

Port Antonio is a fine choice, too.

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Hyattsville, Md.: I want to share a happy travel story and encourage everyone who visits Anchorage AK to stay at the Marriott. I stayed at the Marriott at the beginning of my 2-week Alaska trip. I have rheumatoid arthritis and take a twice-weekly medication that must be refrigerated. I checked out in the morning (I was joining my tour that evening) and the bellman said he would keep my medication refrigerated for the day. When I returned, it clearly had not been refrigerated (which makes it ineffective). A big deal since I did not want to be bedridden for the remainder of my trip. The bell captain immediately took responsibility and offered to pay for a replacement. He did gulp at the cost ($1500 retail for 2-week supply), but he and an associate called about 10 pharmacies to locate the drug (due to the expense, most pharmacies do not keep it in stock). They found one, went and picked up the drug, and because my insurer only charge a damaged drug copay, Marriott only had to pay $200. Everyone makes mistakes, but it was the response of these Marriott employees that matters. They did the right thing, so I got my replacement medication and had a great trip.

Gary Lee: Thanks for the tip. We like placs that give that special kind of treatment.

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Albany, NY: Oh ever-so-insightful Flight Crew:

Hopefully this question isn't too soon!;

So, I'm taking the plunge. I'll be proposing to my girlfriend this New Year's. So of course, I want to go somewhere special to do it; and what better of a time then New Year's!; Since we both have two weeks off for the New Year's holiday, I was thinking of either Asia (not sure which country yet) or Austalia/New Zealand.

We are both in our mid-twenties and are willing to walk around and see the sights. I figure two weeks would be enough to see some of the major attractions in either location. As for Asia, I've heard wonderful things about Singapore in addition to Thailand and Japan. I guess I'm just looking for a push in either direction (Asia or the land down under). I realize this is a fairly subjective question, so maybe you guys could vote. Since you guys know your stuff, I'll go with whatever you choose!;

Promise!;

Maybe fellow readers can also add two to three cents.

Thanks

Anne McDonough: I say, you have two weeks and are planning an important event, so minimizing traveling once you've arrived at your destination would be a good idea. I'd suggest holding off on Australia (two weeks in Aussieland, while wonderful, means you won't see a lot of the country unless you're on flights every other day) and choose a southeast Asia destination, like Vietnam or Thailand or Cambodia, and spend your time exploring a smaller area and soaking up the atmosphere rather than worrying about tickets and flight times. Also, travel in SE Asia, rather than, say Japan, is a lot cheaper, which means you could go more luxe on this special trip. Gary says go to Hangzhou (near Shanghai). I'm always for China travel, so that gets my vote, too, though I'd have the same reservations about that as Australia. Clicksters?

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Chicago, Ill.: About 15 years ago, we had a wonderful extended family vacation to Scotland (no tie whatsoever to our heritage) to celebrate my grandparents' 50th anniversary. We spent half our time at a BnB (which we basically took over) in Inverness, which allowed everyone to meet for breakfast and dinner but to do whatever suited them (from sight seeing, to outdoorsy endeavors, to a drink in the pub) during the day. The second half of the trip we were in Edinburough. We still met up for breakfast and dinner but had the days to explore. And since it was August, we had the Edinburgh Fringe Festival (with its very wide range of activities)at our fingertips. The best part was that in both Inverness and Edinburgh, each day the groups would switch up depending on what we wanted to do, so we got some true quality time with lots of different people. And better yet, all 11 of us made it back still enjoying one anothers' company!

Gary Lee: Sounds terrific. Glad you were all good friends at the end, too.

You're in the running for the prize.

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Alexandria, Va.: RE: Longwood. Should take about 2 hours from NoVa. After crossing the Tydings Bridge, make your way west and go up Route 1. Four lane divided highway until you get to Longwood. For an overnight, try the Brandywine Valley Hotel behind the Chadds Ford Inn and eat at this historic Inn. Or Mendenhall, on Route 52 just off route one. Hope you love mushrooms, as you are going to the mushroom growing capital of the US! Actually, the cafeteria at Longwood is quite a nice place for lunch.

Anne McDonough: Hey Falls Church--you still out there?

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New York, NY: Paris in August- I did this a few years ago, and man is the place packed with other tourists. The upside is that they're mostly European and not American, so you still get an international flavor being there. But there are just lots of people at all the major sites and lots of lines. Of course, Paris is great any time of year, so just concentrate on enjoying it despite the crowds -- it's possible. Just be prepared.

Gary Lee: Thanks. That's the spirit!

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Alexandria, Va..: The most important thing about family reunions is, in my opinion, the ability to get some time off from one's family. No matter how much you love them, familiarity breeds contempt. We've done the big beach house thing before, but that led to attempts for everyone doing everthing together. Trying finding a table for 16 at the beach in July. Something like the Greenbrier or Orlando (Disney/Universal) where there are multiple rooms and multiple activities allows some freedom but big enough public spaces to accomodate big parties for breakfast or dinner works best.

Gary Lee: Thanks much for that useful thought!

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Washington, DC: In the past I have always packed light, taken metro and paid a bit more to fly from national. Now I have two kids and am needing to do some air travel and I feel a bit lost. It is not conceivable to me that I lug the kids, the stroller, the car seats, the suitcases, the carryons and diaper bags on the metro. I need some advice. Does baggage really get lost a lot, is it feasible that I check bags and the older child's booster seat? How hard will it be to find a parking space at Dulles on a Friday morning in August? What are my options? We purchased everyone a seat but the seats cannot be assigned until check-in any tips on being sure we get seats together? And, wow do air fares seem more expensive when the fares are multiplied by four. Thanks for the advice.

John Deiner: Hey, D.C. Funny point about the fares!

Maybe I've just been really lucky, but I've never lost a bag before. I think it's entirely feasible for you to check whatever you need, including the car seat. Has anyone ever lost a car seat? Or had it arrived damaged in any way?

As far as parking goes, the general info number for parking, according to the airport's web site, is 703-572-4500. To speak to a real live human being, call 703-572-4580. But Dulles has many more spaces available than National and, to the best of my knowledge, there is usually some availability.

Finally, keep bugging the airline about the seats. I'm going through the same thing myself right now. I'm calling every day to see if they can assign the seats--sometimes the airlines won't do it because they want to hold the seats together for frequent fliers and such, but I was told this morning that I can call the day before and get my seats. Good luck!

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Arlington, Va.: Please help! There's a theater performance in London that I'd like to see, but I have no idea how to book tickets online. Do they have an official site like ticketmaster.com or telecharge.com that would be reputable for international purchases?

Also, I'm not sure where to stay (and I don't want to spend a lot). What neighborhoods are near their theater district so I don't overpay but I'm not 40 km away, either? Thanks! (And yes, I'm braving London tourism... they didn't stop visiting us, so why should I?)

Andrea Sachs: If you don't want to wait till you get there and buy half-price tickets at the tkts outlet in Leicester Square (though that specific play may not be offered), you can buy online at www.officiallondontheatre.co.uk or through the London tourism office (www.visitlondon.com). The city's site also has hotel listings. Look for places in Covent Garden; I found, for example, a room for $69 a night just two block from the West End theaters.

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Arlington, Va.: For the Georgia visitor, I second the recommendation to visit Athens (I must admit my bias: I'm a UGA alum). You should also hit Savannah, as it's not too far from Augusta. Savannah's downtown is beautiful especially down near the Savannah Collage of Art&Design (SCAD). Check it out!!

John Deiner: Thanks, ARl. I couldn't tell from my handy dandy atlas what sort of ride it would be to Savannah. Looks like a lot of back roads and such, but it's definitely worth a trip.

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Burke, Va.: We are leaving for Ireland on Friday and I have a question about where we check in. We are flying American Airlines the whole way from National to Shannon with a connection in Boston. I assume we check in at the international desk rather than the national desk, or is all the same?

Thanks!

Andrea Sachs: International.

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Washington, DC: For the poster visiting Georgia in September, if he/she really wants to experience genuine Southern culture, the University of Georgia's beloved Bulldogs football team has home games the first two Saturdays of the month -- and quite possibly even after that. Get there a day or two early and soak up the tailgating, partying, atmosphere, and hospitality. The South at its best!;

John Deiner: Been there for that in Athens, and it is a wild, wonderful scene. Went to University of South Carolina myself (Go USC!) and the tailgating rocked.

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Powhatan, Va.: It seems to me that the cost of hotels has gone up a great deal in the last 2 to 3 years. Is this the case?

Gary Lee: It's true that rates fell flat or fell for a year or so after 9/11, but since then they have been on a steady upward climb.

And it's far harder than ever to find deeply discounted room rates.

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Accomodations for missed connections: Hi Crew,

I have a flight to Mason City, Iowa on Friday morning on NOrthwest, via Minneapolis. There is a very short connection (like 40 minutes), which I had to accept because of scheduling. If my incoming flight is late, and I miss the connection and the next one isn't until later in the day, would it make sense to ask the airline for ground transportation for the 2 hour drive to Iowa from MN? Is that possible? Thanks for your help!;

Andrea Sachs: You can ask but most likely they will not provide transportation. Try to get a seat upfront and run your little legs off to make that connection.

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Arlington, Va.: We do week-long family reunions every 5 years with my dad's side of the family. The most memorable was the huge house in Vermont that we rented w/8+ bedrooms and plenty of beds (so no one had to sleep on the floor),its own tennis court, game tables, and a table big enough to seat us all. There are plenty of fun day trips and outdoor activities, and it is w/in a days drive for everyone.

My grandmother passed away on the last night of our "Vermont Vacation" and I will always remember the wonderful week she was able to spend with her entire family. What was a sad event was so much better since we were able to share that time together (in the perfect place).

Gary Lee: Thanks for sharing that. Where in Vermont were you based?

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Alexandria, Va.: Are there any sources of information on interesting worldwide destinations for travelers with sun sensitive skin? I believe this is a function of the UV index and cloud cover and will likely vary seasonally.

John Deiner: Hey, Al. Interesting question. We can't think of any resource out there, but maybe consider going places during the rainy season? (The north coast of Kaui, etc.?) Or even someplace with very little sun in the winter?

Can anyone out there help Al?

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Near Augusta, Ga.: There is also a new Ritz-Carlton Golf and Spa Resort (called Reynolds Plantation?) nearby. My partner said it was beautiful, on a lake, and that the course was great. (Of course, he was on expense account...)

John Deiner: Sounds cool . . . and ya gotta love an expense account, don't you?!

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Canada Customs: It was probably the fact you were taking a rental car across. I live in Canada and you should see the nightmare US customs is in that regard.

Gary Lee: Thanks for that thought.

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Arlington, Va.: re: Canadian border questioning. I go to Toronto at least once a year or so and I have been subjected to the 3rd degree questioning at Pearson airport a couple of times. Going through the immigration line they marked my form with the dreaded pink highlighter and I had to go to a room before exiting the area where I was thoroughly questioned and had to show my passport and return ticket info. It seems relatively random.

Gary Lee: Ok, thanks.

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Reunions: Every year 40+ relatives descend on my great aunt&uncle's small lake cottage in Maine. After meany sleepless years listening to the older generations snore as we all bunked dorm-style in the cottage, nuclear families started to all bring their own tents to pitch in the lawn. Also, the line for the one bathroom was getting out of control, so they rented a port-a-potty for the ment to use.

Hmm, I wonder if these ideas just turn people off of family reunions altogether!;!; We do have a fantastic time, swimming, water-skiing, cranking homemade ice cream, boiling lobsters...

Gary Lee: Sounds like you make your own fun...Great!

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RE: Canadian Border: I'd like to second that comment about the tough security at the Canadian border coming back from Canada into the US. I went to Montreal this past Memorial Day weekend, and I've never been asked so many (annoying) questions going to, or coming back from any other country. I've traveled several times to Europe and the Caribbean.

Gary Lee: Thanks for that thought.

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Washington, DC: Hello Flight Crew!; I'm booked on a cruise to Bermuda sailing from Cape Liberty cruise port in Bayonne, NJ (September 18-23). We will be flying to Newark, NJ from Washington National Airport (I'm told the airport is about 15 minutes from the port). I checked Orbitz and found roundtrip airfare for $288. In your opinion, is this a good fare? Thanks so much for all you do!;!;

Anne McDonough: That seems a little high to me--I found, with random dates, of course, dulles to EWR (that's Newark) for $123 round trip. DCA is coming up with the 288 fare, but have you thought of training it to Newark International instead? Even though Amtrak's a lot more expensive than say the bus, round trip would get in in at more than a $90 savings per person than that flight. Timing, of course, could be an issue but I'd think that $288 seems a bit steep.

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Virginia Beach, Va.: Paris in August: To really get away from the tourists and enjoy some time outdoors, pack a picnic and go to the Parc aux Buttes Chaumont. It's the only park in Paris (that I'm aware of) where you're allowed to sit on the grass! It also features a really strange landscape made up of man-made hills and rock formations--you won't feel like you're in Paris for those few hours, which can be a nice break from the city, and it will leave you rejuvenated for more museum/cafe time.

Gary Lee: Oh, lovely idea. You can also take in the Pere Lachaise cemetary, which is not far away.

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Falls Church: Re: Longwood Gardens -- thanks for the great tips!; I knew the Crew&Clicksters wouldn't let me down. Just as a little shout out -- for as long as this chat has existed, ya'll have helped me plan the big vacations, the small get-aways and the life-altering travel (such as our international adoption trip). You're the best!;

Anne McDonough: Aw, shucks. Now you've got us blushing. Glad we could help!!

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Washington DC-English in B.A.: From my experience, most service personnel speak very little English. For example, the driver who picked us up at the airport said hello, welcome, confirmed we were going to a certain hotel, but then as soon as we asked a question said he didn't know much English. Desk staff at the hotel (maybe because it was an Argentine brand, Amerian, not US/European) knew the basics for check in/check out, but weren't able to be of much help with things like restaurant recommendations or setting up day trips. Absolutely no English spoken at little hole-in-the wall empanada places, a very little bit at the nicer restaurants in Recoleta, but we certainly got further with our basic Spanish with a little French thrown in if we couldn't remember a word... Probably the best English I encountered was the tour guide at the Teatro Colon.

Gary Lee: Thanks for that insight...

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Washington DC: Is there an easy way to locate a hotel along an interstate? I'm going on a road trip this weekend and am trying to find hotels along the PA Turnpike. Thanks!;

John Deiner: Hey, D.C. We just a feature this weekend on how to find out what's coming up at the next exit. Seems as if the book, "The Next Exit," may be a particularly good resource for you. Check www.thenextexit.com for more info.

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Washington, DC: Great article about Buenos Aires!; Having never traveled to South America, how does crime compare to Western Europe/DC? Your comment about avoiding cabs was slightly alarming.

Also, how cold is Buenos Aires during their winter/our summer, and how warm is it during their summer/our winter?

Gary Lee: Thanks for your question. Cindy Loose, the author of the article, is not here this week. Try posting your question next week, if possible.

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Greenbelt, Md.: Thanks to a terrific fare sale on AirTran ($54 to Memphis), we've decided to rent a car and spend a week visiting Graceland (ok), Hot Springs (good) and Branson (yike).

What can a couple of true-blue-staters do in Branson for three days without, like, wanting to be sick?

Andrea Sachs: Depending on your age (older), you can see any number of shows and again depending on your age, you will either like them (older) or jeer at them (young). Otherwise, there is not much else to do in Branson, except hike or bike the Ozarks or noodle around the lakes. To be honest, I would spend more time rocking to Elvis than to the Baldknobbers.

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Washington, D.C.: "Buenos Aires, Always in Style" was everything I look for in a travel article, thanks! I've been considering BA for awhile. My concern is that, as a vegetarian, I won't be able to enjoy the cuisine as much as in other destinations. Can Cindy Loose comment on the Italian offerings, and whether I'd be out of luck or even laughed out of a restaurant if I skipped the steak (while my husband enjoyed his)? Also, can you recommend other outdoor options near BA?

Gary Lee: Thanks for the kudos. Please post your question again nxt week, when Cindy loose, who wrote the story, should be back in town.

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Washington, DC: I was so happy to see the article about Buenos Aires yesterday because I just bought a ticket to go there in December. I will be spending most of my time, however, in Patagonia. I have only 2 days in Buenos Aires. What would you recommend I not miss given the short amount of time I will have there? Also, I probably will do most or all of my shopping there. Where would you recommend I shop to get some good stuff in a very short amount of time? Thanks!;

Gary Lee: Thanks for your note. We'll pass the compliments to Cindy when she returns next week.

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Istanbul?: I have an upcoming business trip to Istanbul in September, and was wondering (a) if there are any "musts" you can recommend for the city, and (b) any advice on finding economical travel from Istanbul to Eastern Europe (specifically the Balkans.) Thanks!;

John Deiner: You lucky dawg. That's a wonderful city. Don't miss the Blue Mosque or Topkapi Palace when you're there--both amazing. The bazaar is creepy and sorta wonderful at the same time. As far as economical travel, check with the budget airlines (easyjet maybe?) that fly from the city. Check www.openjet.com for a list.

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Re: Buenos Aires article: Cindy, what an interesting article on B.A.!; I was there late last year and am thinking of returning sometime this winter. The section on the guest estates and horseback riding was particularly interesting as we are thinking of possible day trips outside the city.

However, there were several things in your article which didn't really reflect our experiences at all that I thought I would share. First of all, we found that very few people spoke any English--are you fluent in Spanish? It was difficult enough with just our elementary Spanish doing something simple like buying a soda or ordering in a restaurant, let alone trying to explain something to a hairstylist or get custom tailoring done. At one upscale store, the clerk and I had to find common ground by communicating in the French we had learned years ago in school to conduct business!;

Also, because of the economic situation many restaurants and stores go out of business. From when you read about a place in the WP or NYT travel section or a guide book until you actually go to B.A., it might not be there anymore. This happened to us several times, choosing a place to go, following the map, and finding only an empty storefront.

We found that by walking around we did not just "happen on" interesting things to do or places to eat, as we had been used to doing while in London, Prague, and Budapest. B.A. is a much larger city, and especially at night, you can walk for blocks and blocks without finding an open restaurant, bar, cafe, club, etc.

Finally, it seemed to me that the idea of the glamorous portenos has become a bit of a self-perpetuating myth. I found the women there no more stylish than here or NYC. You see the same type of clothing, makeup, and accessories at 1223 or Dream every weekend. I also saw plenty of that the scourge of bad taste that is low-rider jeans, crop top, and rolls of fat hanging out. However, the older residents of B.A. still charmingly dress as we frequently saw older women in tweed suits and gloves out walking their dogs.

Finally, one of the highlights of our trip was going to La Bombonera to see Boca Juniors play. I would recommend it even to those without much of an interst in football (soccer) because it is just such a festive, colourful, energetic atmosphere and that makes you feel the passion of the supporters!;

Gary Lee: Thanks for your thoughts.

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Baltimore, Md.: Your article about Buenos Aires was great timing, as we're thinking about a December honeymoon there. If we wanted to combine the trip with a little beach, rainforest and/or penguin time, do you have any recommendations?

Gary Lee: Much thanks. Cindy, who wrote the article, is not in this week. You may send your question next Monday, when she'll be back.

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Gary Lee: Hey, fellow travelers!

Much heartfelt thanks for all of your great questions and for helping out with the answers.

I also appreciate the stories and tips on family reunions.

I particularly liked the story about the family that returned for the walk in Finland. You win the prize this week. If you e-mail me at leeg@washpost.com and send your address, I'll make sure that you get it.

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BA: Hunt carefully and you can find English in BA. Many restaurants will have some service personnel who speak English, and will often put English speakers in the same area so that employee can work with them. There are also English menus that you can request.

I disagree that hotel personnel do not go beyond check in and check out with English. I've stayed in four different hotels there at a variety of price levels, including one of $25/night, and they all spoke English quite well, made restaurant reservations for us, got us taxis, etc.

Wandering around town, it's much less likely to encounter English. But everyone in BA is so proud of their city and they love to show it off to visitors. They're very helpful and accomodating. (Of course they really want tourists to leave their $$) But naturally any effort to speak Spanish, no matter how small, is appreciated.

Gary Lee: Thanks for that perspective!

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Vermont Vacation: We were near West Dover in Southern Vermont.

Gary Lee: Thanks!

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